I was informed that my Husband had Liver Cancer. I didn't yet know enough about his life or about grief to understand his personality or the dates that would be difficult for him. We honored each other as one person in our marriage. That was until I fell for him. He was only He laid down for a nap and never woke again.
There was no win.
When your boyfriend is a widower, the usual dating rules don't apply
Finally the spouse thought her husband was getting better and then he started failing fast. We sometimes think it is romantic never to date again. From the statistics I've read, men remarry faster than women who have lost a spouse. Believing that there will always be a tomorrow has always worked for me in the past. Dear Wendy November 16,8: I can relate to too many on that list.