So make sure you don't sound too serious in your messages that you write. So even if I've exchanged an email or two with someone else, I wouldn't know how to respond at this point and I'm just flaking on responding. Definitely add a few smiling shots. I don't chase replies from girls; which is a trap most guys fall into. You have made it clear that you are a champion talker and that can be very intimidating for people who do not study the fine art of oratory. And yes, this does mean conversation for conversation's sake. I've tried "So how is XXX site working out for you- any good dates?
My OK Cupid approach is this:
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I also think it's worth noting that your profile is a bit boring and overly intellectual. I've found that nobody really has a problem with someone who takes a day or two to write back, so waiting is generally a safe bet. Thousands of guys have already made lasting connections with beautiful women, and we're ready to make you our next success story. Your profile is a little long, but definitely not in crazy-monologue range by a good margin. Weekday evenings are generally best — many women unwind from a long day at work by firing up a dating app while catching up on Netflix. Send us an example of an email thread you've sent: