Because you really won't enjoy what you see. The other girl did nothing wrong The girl your crush likes did nothing except be liked by a boy. Don't let these thoughts creep in because the truth is that the one you want can't be with you right now. Tips Be casual when asking your crush out. Instead, find the songs that talk about surviving, being strong and getting on with your life. It might just be as simple as you not being their type, you probably have a type and so do they. We can't control matters of the heart.
Even if they breakup with their partner, oh wait we're not supposed to say that, and they're still not into you it still doesn't mean you're not a hottie.
What to Do When Someone You Like is Dating Someone Else
There are no two ways of looking at it, helping someone cheat is just as bad as being the cheater. In your head this is like a big green light saying go get 'em. In which case, there is no point trying to light any sparks between you, not even for the sake of "just seeing" and definitely not for revenge or out of spite. So we spend endless nights pining over somebody who is all coupled up and happy, wishing we were with them instead. It is a strange feeling and it is normal to feel upset about it. Not Helpful 2 Helpful It's only downhill from there.